The summer before my ninth birthday I decided I didn’t like my name.

I had more than one reason for desiring a new name.  To begin with, I didn’t know anyone else with the name Paige.  It was unusual. There were no stores that sold bike tags or key chains with my name printed on them. In a world of girls named Jennifer and Melissa, my name stuck out like a sore thumb. And all I wanted was to just blend into the crowd around me.

It seemed to me most of my friends had nicknames. Cynthia went by Cindi. Virginia was known as Ginger. We called our friend Melissa by the shorter version, Missy. There was no cute nickname for Paige.

Another sticking point for me was the fact that Paige was actually my middle name. Almost everyone I knew went by their first name. My parents had decided, prior to having children, to making a tradition of using their children’s middle names. Both of them used their middle names, so it seemed like a great idea to them. With that in mind, my parents had picked out the names for their children with the intention of using middle names more than first names.  Middle names aren’t so bad, as long as you don’t care about your doctor or your insurance agent forever referring to you by the wrong name.

Furthermore, my first name was Angela, which seemed only added insult to my injury.  I thought Angela was a far more glamorous name than Paige.  It even had the coveted convenient nickname (Angie). Many a night I lay awake in my bed, fuming, “If my mother simply had to name me Angela Paige, couldn’t she at least have called me Angela?”

And finally, there was the story of how my mother arrived at choosing my name.  Other kids I knew were named after a beloved aunt, in honor of a grandmother, or perhaps their mother’s favorite soap opera star.  Even my own sister was named after my mother read a novel with a character named Brooke.  My name?  According to the story my mother always told me, she “found” my name on the sign of a veterinary clinic, where the vet was a Dr. Paige, Paige being his last name, of course.  As if it weren’t already bad enough that my name came off of a sign, I spent the rest of my growing up years with nightmares about falling in love with some man who had the last name Page. I could not imagine anything more devastatingly awful than becoming Paige Page.

I was Angela Paige Terry … the girl with three first names.


Back to the summer of 1981.  Between the typical summer activities of swimming, Vacation Bible School, and visiting my grandparents in TX, I was enormously excited over the royal wedding of Britian’s Prince Charles. Like all the other girls my age and older, I was caught up in the pomp. I convinced my mother to buy me every magazine with a photo of the royal couple.  And though there was no internet connection in those days, I collected even the tiniest of details about the Prince Charles and his bride-to-be.  My mother even agreed to allow me to wake up at 4 am on July 21st so I could watch the wedding take place in real-time.

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But thirty plus years later, more than the remembering the specifics of their fairy-tale wedding, I recall most being enamored with Lady Diana Spencer. And while I adored everything about her, mostly I loved her name. To my young ears, it was definitely the most regal name I had ever heard. In the depths of my heart, I knew I, too, was meant to be named Diana.

For months, maybe a year or more, I quietly brooded about my name. If only I could figure out a way to get everyone to call me Diana, then my life would be perfect.  One day I discovered from a  discussion at school about how names could legally be changed, a fact I had not previously known. Now, I began to plot in earnest. Surely there must be some way to convince my mother to allow me to legally change my name to Diana.

My mother is not an easy woman to convince. She can be surprisingly stubborn.  To my astonishment, she didn’t agree with a single one of my long list of judgements against my name. In fact, she thought Paige was a perfectly wonderful name.

(Now that I am mother, let me say I completely understand her perspective regarding my name. After all, just like most parents, she chose my name careful consideration. Why would she suddenly decided to change it based on my childish whims? But back then, my brain was apparently only half-baked because I definitely didn’t understand why my mother refused to see things my way.)

Initially, I was heartbroken. I had fully expected her to jump on board with my idea, and when she didn’t … well, I felt discouraged and hopeless about having to go through life with my terrible name.  However, I decided not to give up too quickly.  Again and again, I approached my mom with my request.  Unfortunately, I had no success. My mother would not be moved.

Then one night, to my surprise, my mother responded to my whining with:

Paige, if you really want to change your name, it’s okay with me. However, since your father and I will be the ones paying for this name change, I think it’s only fair we get to choose your next name as well. 

This was not exactly what I was hoping for, but yet I no argument for her logic. After all, I certainly didn’t have the money required to legally change my name. Yet, considering my sister’s name wasn’t nearly as awful as mine, I held out some hope that the second time around she might pick a more beautiful name for me as well. Maybe I could even give her a list of suitable names to consider …

But when I came to her with my list in hand, my mother replied:

Thank you, but that’s not necessary. Your father and I have already chosen your new name.  We agreed you should be named after your great-great-grandmother, Urilla Xerenia. What do you think?

Suddenly, Angela Paige didn’t seem like such a terrible name after all. 


At some point between jr. high and college, I began to like my name a little better. This wasn’t an overnight decision, but more of a slow process. To begin with, as I traveled with various high school clubs to rallies, contests and conventions, I actually began to meet other girls with the name Paige. I wasn’t as alone as I originally thought.  As I would meet new people for the first time, I would often receive comments on my unique or pretty name.  I began to take these as positive compliments instead of continuing to view them as negatives.

After I moved away to attend college, I began to meet more and more young ladies who were named Paige. Many of them had Paige as a middle name, but most were called by their first names. I can’t recall how many times one of them would lean in to quietly confess, “I always wished my mother would have called me by my middle name. You are so lucky!”

But the day I really learned to love my name was the day God gave it back to me.


Like any good gift, God’s gift to me came at the perfect time. In the summer of 2007, my then husband left me and our three children. The months that followed were the darkest of my life.  At 34 years old, my life felt over. I could not imagine rising up from the pit where I sat. Not only did I feel completely unloveable, but I also wondered how could God ever use me again?

During this time, God continuously reminded me of His love for me. Almost daily for those first six to eight months after he left, I received unexpected cards, letters, and even packages from friends all over the nation, many of whom I barely knew. Emails flooded my inbox, most of them containing scriptures and prayers being said over me and my children.

And one night toward the end of that dreadful summer, I received a phone call from a lady I really didn’t know at all.

I had never met Sheila in person, but knew of her from an online forum where we both participated. We had never exchanged private communications, and all I really knew about her was she lived in Tennessee and homeschooled her preteen son. To this day, I have no idea how she found my phone number, or what motivated her to call me when she did … other than she had been given exactly what she claimed: a message to me from God.

Unlike most other phone calls, this one wasn’t much of a conversation between two people. Rather, she called to give me a message. She spoke. I listened. And to this day, what she had to say gives me the sort of chills that can only happen when God is involved.

Sheila told me:

Your parents named you Angela Paige.

The name Angela means “angel.”  We often think of angels as being winged creatures playing harps. Yet, in heaven angels are servants of God and have many purposes. One of those purposes is to deliverer of God’s messages. In scripture we read over and over about God sending angels to earth to bring forth messages to humans.

The name Paige is directly in reference to the job of a page, or a young servant to a king. Pages were just general errand boys, doing whatever the king might need. This job often included bringing messages to various parts of the castle or even other locations. 

You are named Angela Paige. You are a servant to the King of Kings. God has chosen you to be His mouthpiece. You will be used to deliver His message of love, peace, joy and encouragement.  

Ten minutes after the phone rang, I sat in complete silence, amazed God would reach down to me at the lowest point in my life and call me to speak for Him.


Throughout the Scriptures, there are recorded instances of times when God renames people. He gave Abram and Sarai new names: Abraham and Sarah. A man name Jacob is renamed Israel. In the New Testament, Jesus began to call Simon by a new name, Peter. And after his conversion,  Saul’s name was changed to Paul.

I’ve known other Christ-followers, my husband included, who felt like the Lord gave them a special name, something significant on which they could mark God’s personal and intimate knowledge of who they were created to be.

But God didn’t give me a new name. Instead, He gave me the same name, along with a reason to love it.

To the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna. I will also give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it. ~Revelation 2:17


What’s the story behind your name? Do you love it or hate it? Has God ever given you a new name?

If you have ever received believing faith in Christ, then He has your name written in the Lamb’s Book of Life, and that’s more important than any name we might go by here on this earth.

12 thoughts on “The Naming of Me

    1. 🙂 LOL … well, I cannot imagine my mother being negotiator in either business or diplomacy. She was an elementary school teacher … I suppose all those years in the classroom enabled her to develop a sixth sense about children and their manipulations. 🙂 However, I must say my mother is a very wise woman. A gentle, quiet woman who has a knack for saying the right thing at the right time. If only I could be like her in this way!

  1. Angela Paige, what a story. In all honesty I love your name and knowing what it means makes it even more special. The things children think. I can identify some with the name of Levi Marlin. I came to terms with it very early in elementary school. Levi is biblical which you know and I am the 6th generation of older sons to carry the name. I wouldn’t change my name for anything. My son carries my name with The 2nd. Great post. Good girl!!! Lol😀

    1. I’ve really grown to love my name too. I don’t know if other children dislike their names so much, or if it was only me … but I’m glad I’ve come around to making a 180 turn in this area. By the way, Levi was one of the few names that made it to my “short list” both times when naming my two boys. It would still be on the list today. 🙂

      1. Good morning Paige. I’m glad you had a 180 turn. I’ve really not thought of how many children do or don’t like their names. Many don’t care for their middle names I think. Have a great, blessed day!😀

  2. Great post – it’s amazing how much meaning can be found in a name! People used to tell me that with two biblical names (John Mark) I had two names to live up to, and I guess they were right! “John” means “God’s gift,” and “Mark” means “strong hammer.” I like to think of the way God gives me strength, and my name is a constant reminder of it…

    1. I knew John meant God’s gift … my husband is named Jon, just a different spelling. I never realized Mark meant strong hammer though. It does seem like a fitting reminder of what God would want to give you on a daily basis. Now, I’m curious … do you go by both names? I have been friends with several men named John Mark, and they always seem to go by both. 🙂

      1. I do… this world is full of John Millers (it’s like being named John Smith… so generic), so I’ve always used both names. That, and my parents would die if I dropped the middle name (they were very intent on calling me John Mark while I grew up)…

  3. Wonderful story…. I don’t really know why my mother chose the name she did for me… I do know it was just her choice and not my father’s because by the time I was born he had left… at my mother’s bidding … he was an alcoholic and finally had started to abuse physically (I was the last of 10) … Anyway, I looked up ‘Diane’ and it said ‘heavenly’… It may or may not be true..but I like it…. Diane

    1. When I read your comment, I thought that the meaning for Diana was something along the lines of “heavenly” as well. I must have researched the meaning during all those years of wanting to be named Diana Anyway I looked it up again tonight, and according to what I found, both Diane and Diana do mean “heavenly.” I would assume we are correct … a beautiful name and a great reminder of our future home with Christ. 🙂

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