The phone rang at 7:30 am, but I didn’t hear it. Ten minutes later, I saw the missed called notification, indicating my husband had called but left no voicemail.
Immediately I called back, asking if he was needing me to do something for him. “No,” he answered. “I was just calling to ask you on a date … for tonight. How about going with me to watch a movie?”
Jon and I rarely get to go to movies. Truthfully, I’m not much of a movie person. (I realize this is a strange fact, but the honest truth is I hardly ever desire to see a film.) Jon, however, loves movies and would probably like going to the theater on a regular basis. Yet, as the parents of five kids, we don’t often have the extra money in the budget to afford soaring ticket prices. Movies, for us, are a rare treat.
So when Jon asked me on a movie date, I immediately knew Jon for some reason felt this movie was important for us to see. I had to say yes.
It turns out the movie Jon wanted to take me to see was a Focus on the Family one night event at movie theaters across the nation. The name of the film was Irreplaceable, documentary-style movie exploring the idea of family and why it matters in light of history, psychology, religion and today’s culture.
I was captivated from the moment the film started. Tim Sisarich, the New Zealand director and host, asked honest questions about the importance of family to society, especially in light of how the idea of family has changed in recent years and with the direction our culture is declining. Sisarich examines how the devaluing of sex led to the decline of traditional, long-lasting marriage, which further the idea that parenthood (particularly fatherhood) wasn’t a role to desire or take seriously. All of this has led to the demise of the family and ultimately the weakening of our culture.
Initially, it seemed Sisarich was going to just serve as a host, asking questions to the various experts and providing dialogue during transitions. But soon we catch a glimpse of Sisarich’s background … and as the documentary moves forward, Sisarich’s personal story unfolds as well. As a viewer, I felt even more engaged with Tim Sisarich as he walks through his personal story of a broken family.
Following the movie, Jon and I were able to talk deeply about our own past failures (both of us having been divorced and Jon also being the child of a broken home), our struggles (with step-parenting), our desires (in our marriage, as parents and step-parents and for the future of our family). For this reason alone, Irreplaceable was a film worth seeing.
My favorite part of this documentary came toward the end when Sisarich comes to the conclusion there is really no such thing as a perfect family. However, there is such a thing as a redeemed family, one which despite the brokenness of life on earth chooses to love God and love each other.
This is what Jon and I are striving for together. No perfect, but perfectly redeemed by the grace of God.
In case you missed the one night showing of Focus on the Family‘s documentary Irreplaceable, there will be an encore showing on May 15th. The Focus on the Family blog has more information about the movie and the encore theater showing of the film. Click here to find out if there is a theater near you hosting this film.
Not sure if you would be interested in viewing Irreplaceable? Here’s the trailer.
7 thoughts on “Irreplaceable”
this sounds wonderful and i love that your husband wanted to see this with you. Such a testament to a strong happy family.
Thanks, Kate! The biggest gift God ever gave me was a husband who love Him more than he loves me … sounds crazy because the old me would want to be first in my husband’s life, by now I understand God must be first and I must be second. 🙂
That is the greatest gift ever Paige. Im blogging about that very thing tomorrow! What a treasure your husband is!!
Wow – I hadn’t heard of this one… we’ll have to try and check it out on the 15th!
I have 5 kids too-yay us! I don’t even know the last time we went to the movies…it has been that long! Sounds like this is one worthy of looking into! Thanks for sharing and for stopping by my blog as well. I shall be following you 😉
Thank you for sharing! This is the first I’ve heard of the film. I’m excited to check it out!
“There is such a thing as a redeemed family, one which despite the brokenness of life on earth chooses to love God and love each other.” You’ve nailed it, Paige! Sometimes we have to CHOOSE to love God through obedience, and do the right thing for each other, because feelings betray us. Thank you for your insights, in response to the film, Irreplaceable.
And thank you also for becoming a follower of my blog. I pray you’ll find the posts meaningful.